Saturday, January 24, 2015

Dr. Phil - Facebook

These girls seemed very inhibited and affected about their hormones.

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The girls who had problems happen to them seem rather premature, like I was.  The ones who make problems seem overly developed.

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I don't think I would report a bully cuz they could come back and hurt me more.  Someone else would have to do it.

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I submitted "the..story..of..my..life," again!

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They are in denial that they have problems they can change themselves.  The ones who are bullied probably weren't mostly in life-threatening situations necessarily, but you are right you need anonymous reporting from a 3rd party so the bully won't bully you for telling.  That's why I don't like the idea of calling the police..

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1) Are bribes common in your household? N

2) Do you often make parenting decisions based on emotion? Y

3) Do you make excuses for your child's poor behavior? N

4) Do you cover for your child's mistakes? (i.e. pay fines, do undone homework, pay overages on cell phone, etc.) N

5) Does your child often try to manipulate you? Y

6) Do you ever wish others would change their behavior or attitudes to make things easier for your child? N

7) Do you give into your child just to keep the peace and avoid conflict? N

8) Do you tend to be lenient with your child? Y

9) Do you tend to not set boundaries or have trouble keeping them? Y

10) Do you have a hard time saying no to your child? Y/N

11) Do you allow your children to make their own choices or rules? Y

12) Does your child lack responsibility, self-control or motivation? Y

13) Has your child become more aggressive and irresponsible? Y

14) Does your child have issues with insecurity or self-esteem? N

15) Has your child become more demanding and selfish? N

Looks like I got 1/2 1/2 Y/N.

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You're always gonna run into the truth.  My mom said I complained a lot when I was being critical or always criticizing was what she said.  There's nothing wrong with what I did.

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I have tried talking online.  They wanted me to go away.  They even sent me to other sites, where I was also told to go away.  I do it by chatting.  I have a therapist and a psychiatrist.  The link does look nice and would be a nice experience.  I avoid sitations like that it seems, tho.  I wanted to check myself into an institute, but I was just recommended to unemployment clubs and the like.  I thought I was using my therapist.  I don't know what to do next.  She doesn't seem to help.  She's nice, but she denies what I say and says it's schizophrenia.