If you don't think you're a #1 for your generation, why would you tell a kid they are a #1 to you? Are you capable of communicating with someone who is considered a #1 if you say you aren't "as good??"
I don't see all whites as equal. You know how black people feel clean? Well, I feel clean. The funny thing is I'm white and have a little Southern European, 0.4%. I think Britney is about 1% but not sure.
Why does it matter so much who our ancestors were thousands of years ago? That doesn't come in handy when it comes to things like your parents being mushy. I'm not much of a mushy person. I am closer to my relatives in the Stone Age than the ones I have now.