I am so sorry, if you wanna use a person as a tool for punishment is fine. Maybe, that's your time and your way to do it. I do not understand, but I wanted to say it also bothered me, tho I get argued that it's a fact and not an if this if that. I guess it is. And it is okay to you as a punishment opportunity. I don't get it, but I guess it's just wrong to say. Even if that's all you can figure out cuz you can't figure out that you deserve punishment.