I don't need parents. Parents don't need me.
It's just the family that's important. Not the being in charge of me, which has become messed up..I haven't really lived with people being in charge of anything I did as though it were bad. I wasn't bad. I was not cared about.
There is some thing in everyone where you feel a little that they are in charge of you but nothing hugely tangible in sight for sore eye.