Are you really helping someone I know? I didn't ruin their lives, but people act like I did by some aura about me that seems to consume things via my subconscious. Heck, I bet other people wouldn't mind doing that to me if they didn't already.
It seems like the thing to do, at least people who hurt me. It's like all of a sudden I'm bad. If I'm bad, it might not mean I was bad to that person. I am not bad, tho.
Concerning the title of my post, I bet some people would even suggest the opposite in that my idea of helping must be bothersome. I know people have issues concerning me. I am not digging in their lives, tho, cuz I can't. They don't want help or don't talk to me.