I know people who are smug, unwelcoming, and stubborn.
You think they are good people. Then, you find they set their caliber too high as far as who they'll not sneer at goes, relationships closer and not closer. Yea, I'll just "sneer" at you.
It's tragic to see people not accepting others, even if they bow down to you. They aren't even bossy to you. They just want your guidance or something. It's been said.
"Ya'll goin' make me act a fool.."