Instead of always being told from Bambi by others, "If you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything, at all."
say..
"If all you have is irrational things to bring up, you don't have anything appropriate to notice, at all."
It's a problem, and that's what I said "on this here" blog. No offense, obviously. "I'm an innocent man."
Not pointing fingers, but people come up. Not sure what the rest of you are doing in concern of this, like what people generally really secretly say about people. I'm good, tho.