Do you know people who either do or do not do act good and say, "I did what I did, I'm some person, and I deserve all the attention and affection because I exist and no one else does nor can."
Where's the part that says they can tell others what to do? They're just biting off more than they can chew.
I like Helena Bonham Carter, but she was with Tim Burton during his prime and now has left him. It seemed like everyone was upset Tim Burton was not single. He doesn't seem to go as public now, like online and with things of the nature of Charlie and the Chocolate Factory going over.