Sunday, January 31, 2016

STAR WARS PERSONALITY BOOK

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So far not a bad read.

Latin Americans!

We need to see them as real Spanish people like Italian Americans are real people.  I might have some blood.  I'm not a person.  I'm 1/2 Asian 1/2 hairy Caucasian and proud of it.

What if..

What if people tried making me look different from someone they knew I'd run into?  So what, I'm an American and proud to be free.

Saturday, January 30, 2016

Update

My Forum

Music

Music

I always thought it said, "I can't see you anymore.."

Music I Grew up Knowing



easy to sing to

Friday, January 29, 2016

Music



Who I Am

I feel like a record of mistakes.

Opportunity When Being Tested

When I am tested, I feel it is an opportunity to do something unnecessary and get more of what I want and need in life.

Keep Sinning, er, Smling

Do you know that people who you like a lot are popular for acting like all the wild, confusing people who seem to have such a miserable life that they let out contradictory instructions on what to do that overcome the world?  The very likable people say, "Hey, yea, that's okay, just rattling up the tight stress and making things more comfortable even tho it's like a sin.  Let's all submit to this instruction."  Do you realize what this says?  It says, "Hey, keep sinning cuz it makes life seem easier to copy from.  Maybe, this is the right way to eventually ride into death by the time one is an old man or woman.  Hey, nothing wrong with being, like, a dump truck driver, after you've dedicated to some other path, cuz hey you know it really is okay so why not give up the other dream for something else - jump on the bandwagon too?"

I'm not trying to victimize people.  I notice this desire from a lot of things I bet.  Who fits the description in your life?

Did you notice..

Did you notice people who always want you in limbo, like what you think is never right either way cuz it's supposed to hurt you?  They just wanna keep the mystery.

Thursday, January 28, 2016

Just Stay Calm

I learned ways to deal with different kinds of anger of how others are to me.  I feel like I'm 5 tho and can't seem to get it coordinated.

Turning Me On

I know people can turn me on and make me mad if they can create a pretend reason, like if I feel a little guilty about my behavior (well, inner thoughts others can detect) tho it wasn't really that bad yet to a degree.

Thinking of You

Before, I felt pushed to think about someone I like when I was able to give myself down time.

Now, I feel I cannot think of them at all because of others.

Who cares..

I bet people think who cares Christina is Chinese toss her.  That's why me having a problems blog is unacceptable to others.

I understand it sounds like a regiment to go by.  I don't think I've seen the issue solved, and I don't see how it is a real issue other than to get at me.

Also, I think that most racists are just prejudiced.. obviously.  If you're white, why not just say the Chinese don't matter but should be off-ed?  You don't have any blood or anyone to care about.  It's accepted popularity-wise.

Supposedly, I am not a person just because you decided and if considered bad say it's popular.  It's not even cuz I'm Chinese but because I'm like a kid to people who don't want me to be.  We all understand that.  It's a simple problem with a simple solution, in some ways.

Elimination!

I thought you were against abortion.

Why do..

Why do Baby Boomers think they are so much better than Generation XY?

My Identity

Why do people think I am a product of my parents and that they aren't good enough for me to be who I want?  That's far off the mark.  May as well seek out a poor black kid in Africa and ask them to lead a nation.  Plus, may as well discount all the princesses.

Having Pennsylvania Blood

It feels like I'm a dog following a bone hanging from a stick attached to my head.

Facebook

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People Here

Self-Centered

Problems

This is an old unpublished post.

Others having problems with others should not affect me negatively.

Belief

Everyone has to believe I'm in the wrong.

Kick Start Your Diet Today

Get all the pieces in place.

-Sufficient Exercise
-Fasting to Healthy Foods
-Respect Your Inner Connoisseur for Food

Wrong "Punishments"

I don't like people "punishing" me when I am the one being attacked and acting like it's a part of the circle of life.

They think they are catty and solved an issue.  Well, nope.  I don't know why people venerate others in some ways.  They are trying to look good socially, too.

I don't take being talked down upon as an assumption of who I am.  Not everyone lives life that way with that sorta threat to their personal space.  It is actually racism about my mom's genes in me.  I am a successful person, but people are listening to others/someone else who I "accidentally"/whatever spammed and beating on me that I'm nothing like there's something wrong with my parents.  I'm also on psychiatric pills I don't need, which helped result in other maladies.

cont.

Like, hard to hold onto the thought, but like trying to abuse me more emotionally.

I don't like how this is going.

So, my parents are getting into me more.. like trying to overcome my passion for others.

Pathetic

My parents took a turn for the worse when I got interested in others and left me "in trouble."

Waiting?

So, I'm just waiting abused racially?

Schedule

I may not watch any of Ellen until my busy week is over on Sunday.

Problem

I don't believe people who think you should be a series of steps without problems coming up and if you stop and think about it you're a problem.

I don't get it.

It seems a lotta people want me d**d, a little more for everyone then, just jealous because I did it but not jealous before.

Liars

They do it to save their own hide cuz they were being s***.

I just shouldn't care about anyone.  Those older adults will be there to save their hide by being racist as an excuse.

Ruining My Stay

I've been in Orlando a long time.

People just assume I am worthless cuz I'm 1/2 Asian from my mom.

Idiots!

Why are these crazy, selfish people there trying to say I am bad?

Wednesday, January 27, 2016

Back Talk

Do you know people who talk to you just to negatively affect the situation?

Romping Around

Do you know people who want to wake up because of race because there are things to do to beat out the Asians from being on the human genome?

Why are..

What do you think of people messing around acting like I'm bad and then I'm good, like it's just a game and neither answer is correct?  Do they think they are better than me? as well as others?

Good Girl Gone Bad?

Think of all those fools who go by the supposition I am bad in life.

Oh, yea, that's nothing.  That's the opposite of everyone else.  Let's just flip something around and all our problems shall be solved.

Comfort Inn

Why is it "in" for kids to feel comfort?

IMDb - The Soapbox

Re: It's your choice to be offended

Not if you can't figure a way out of it. 

IMDb - The Soapbox

Re: Women are not good leaders.

Female toddlers and young girls certainly are..were. And the bitches last in their brattiness until teenagers and young adults. 

Cool Kids

My dad says sometimes kids are silly when I was talking about someone as a kid then teen..

Older adults today, Baby Boomers, bank on the "people who are a bit younger than me," like 10 years younger.  They think they followed the real program and I'm toxic waste.

Tuesday, January 26, 2016

Do more people..

Do more pathetic people puncture you emotionally?

The Ellen DeGeneres Show

Mario Lopez was a great personality!

The little strong African American boy was so good!  Good personal trainer to some of Ellen's assistants!

Ellen's Birthday!  Show tomorrow!


About Mario Lopez, I like the Spanish from living in the oldest continuing city in the US and 2nd oldest, Saint Augustine, Florida.  I feel a distance from when I moved away to where Ellen is from.  However, I still can retouch some of the magic.  I never was very much made public in my interest in the Spanish nor had a very in some way intense confrontation with the Spanish.  It was a distant "relationship."  I have a stronger connection with the French, which has to be from living in the New Orleans, Louisiana, area.

Independence

Do you feel more independent of your parents or like they've "fixed" you a lot?  Like when you're inadequate or down.

Non-White Heritage

White people need to be the best at everything any race does so much they made the protocol of non-white a part of their surrounding requirements, while they coast nonchalantly dissing the actual non-whites themselves, like they don't matter and aren't "human"/"real people.."

A Strict Thing

Why would people get mad at a "child" such as me about giving attention to someone quite a bit older?

I mean why me?  I know other kids it's impossible.

The Church is Schizophrenic.

"Is The Music really praising the Lord??"

Monday, January 25, 2016

Time

Have you ever spent too much of the wrong kind of time with someone? to the point it rubs on you and you lose your identity.  Yet, you never go out of your way to see said person?  Have you??

Being Bad

Am I bad, too?

Dysfunctional

When something goes my way, logic fails around me.

Facebook

I found out I could major in singing!

I will ask them to steer me towards my true interests and may fly to study somewhere someday for a semester or something.

Altering Nature

Do you know when people say you aren't really that great all of a sudden-

Ellen DeGeneres has turned into..

Lately or Handler

always stands for what she believes in

Do you ever feel..

Do you know that feeling when a feeling, usually physical dawns on/manifests in you and you have to fight or do something, like you can't lay still and let be?  Like an inner fight of forces in your body.

It's like..

..someone ^has^ to beat me.

"Love is around."

Everywhere around me I am surrounded by depressing people.

Doing What You Should

Do you ever know you did everything you're supposed to do and the world tells you something else now that you cannot fix?

More "Southern" Europeans

I am part Southern European myself.

I don't mind them joining in on my fun, but I don't want to be eliminated.

Schedule

I don't know how often I will catch Ellen as of this past week.  I was watching 2 episodes and cut it off.. then "got sick" and threw up.  Sometimes, I used not to catch Fridays.  Pretty pathetic.  I have to do some ironing and want to watch today but unsure if I will be able to catch up.  I tried to catch up earlier, tho.

Sunday, January 24, 2016

Facebook

God is great, God is good.

God overcomes us, one and all.

Looks like I missed it.

Ellen later this week

New Pictures of Me

Pancake Breakfast

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Saturday, January 23, 2016

Picked On

I still feel picked on.  I am such a nice person, but people find me who don't know me and "use" me.

Differences

We're all different.

We're not all in the same boat.

Whatever floats your boat.

The Ultimate Mistake

The ultimate mistake is to say in the end I don't get what I got in life.

Mind all the little things you do/say against me manifesting in some problem.

cont.

How often have you seen it happen in a person?

Did you notice..

Did you notice people heave like they're saying, "Well, okay!" in a friendly yet introverted way like they're bubbling or puffing out, when someone else has taken the brunt of blame for life's challenges?.. like they're the savior?

New Picture of Me

Stealing Our Dream

People my age had a dream, some of us at least.

Did you ever see men born in the later 1950s going around acting like it has to be it for their little princess like their fair-weathered claim on how good older dads's girls had it?

I never have to ask for anything, like to be approved of.  Now, people experimenting on me are making people not accept me.  I found it "repulsive" how people demanded attention of others.  They are just messing with nature.

Smiles

link

So, a Human Resource Manager keeps up with what people in the workplace are up to.

Friday, January 22, 2016

Posts Updates

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*Sorry, not sure what floats your boat.  I think I've hurt people's feelings about the truth.

Older Adults

What makes older adults today think they are so good?

A Problem

They took from what was ours and gave it to a higher generation just to solve a problem.

Do you hear how they get excited in such a weird way, can you sense it?  I don't even wanna do that.  I will not submit to people born in the *1950s, traitors!  *1960s, sick!

*Sorry, not sure what floats your boat.  I think I've hurt people's feelings about the truth.

Perverted "Kids" Today

Anyone like 5 years or younger than me think, "We know all about what you said/think.  You're never anything, you're never interesting, you did nothing!"

Automatically Thrown in the Fire by Gut Instinct

"You don't 'have it,' Christina!!"

If you're born in my generation you are.

A "Future"

A BS in Business Administration on the Communications side sounds good.  I can work anywhere and do anything.  I can work on my arts/music and getting famous, still, too.

Office Accounting I
Office Accounting II Using QuickBooks Pro

Business Communication

Travel Study in Business
Human Resources Management
Human Resources Recruitment and Staffing
Human Resources Compensation and Benefits Administration
Introduction to Human Resources Management Law and Regulations

General Studies
Introduction to Oral Communication
Humanities General Education course
Intermediate Algebra
Social Science General Education course

I will be automatically accepted into UCF.

I just need a note from my therapist for financial aid telling of my situation being mentally ill and withdrawing from too many classes.  Also, I will get disability benefits, like testing alone.

Distance

I bet my dad believed I just wanted to be a robot and excel as much as I could in something that's hard and that if I want to meet people I have to just talk to him like I haven't already.

Sin

People keep being mean to me to stay on the good side of people who know me.

Lies

I'm not from where my dad is from.  I know he used to be too distant.  He can't be all the get up now and act like he can track me and correct me, like I'm him.

He does it in his attitude, and he yells threatening to throw me outta the house if I mention something like it or try to get into this kinda stuff.

I don't think my parents got dirt on me.  I think my mom started to get onto me when I started looking more white.  It made me catch on and act the same way back without thinking, but I feel I got into secret trouble.  If my dad is responsible, I'd say it's because he's from here and doesn't give a c*** no matter how good I am that I slave away at homework, pretending it's cuz I'm 1/2 Chinese/Asian or that it's mixed race that does it.  I already spent about as much time as you can working on the piling busywork and became Valedictorian as a kid.  It's the road that leads to nowhere.

"Kids!"

People are pushing me to be with people 5 years older than me even if I don't want to at the time, while they have a solution to have all the "kids" go to people who are cool, like Late Boomers.

New Picture of Me

Post Update

link (about "war")

*I'm not sure where your mind is, but I mean it might be a reason to fight, for instance, Native American indians.  I'm not trying to make things up, just stating a fact.

What's Important

Well, I think it's important to find out what people really want.

Who's Got the Time!

Why do people want to take my time if I'm so different yet supposedly unpopular/unimportant/disposable?

I mean why does it come from me?  I don't see others weaving such a web.  I didn't grow up to do this.

"Time"

I find that it's probably emotional load or something else.  There is enough time for different things, but some people have obligations.  I should only offer up time for others but don't mean take away all mine.

Dilemma

So, everyone can get along, but some people want to be the only #1.  I don't think anyone is alone there.  I'm not out to beat others.  I do "be" in my little hole like I'm worth s***.

Suppressed Racism

Imagine someone racist against Asians supposedly having as much European worth as Southern Europeans in the face of an Asian (looking at an Asian.)

I guess the person would end up finding an Asian admitting they are wrong! and yes very mad and probably a bit schizophrenic.

IMDb - The Soapbox

Racist or Anti-Racist

Racists do exist, and I think it seems like most people claim they don't! 

Well, I figured it out.

Everyone else is out of the picture.  People are simply out to get me.  It doesn't affect others negatively what I do.

Inside Out @ Church Tomorrow

Highlight for slight spoilers:

"I think Fear is cute.

I own a purse and the doll Disgust it so happens and plan to bring them to show off what's good!"

Resting Race

I know I am being taken advantage of.

I might have a little Italian or some other Southern European.

I am 1/2 Asian, and it's fine in a way for me.

I just saw people resting a fact on me that this was based on race and Southern European trumps Asian, but that's not true!  People seem to fight *wars over this fact.  It's something that helps people who feel they are "normal" racially whatever their race may be counter the bad intents other races/ethnicities may have, bad things to them regardless of whose race whose is.  I'd rather be another race than simply not exist or die or be tortured too much.  I am very anti-racist, but people just assume everyone is when they're not.  Bingo.

*I'm not sure where your mind is, but I mean it might be a reason to fight, for instance, Native American indians.  I'm not trying to make things up, just stating a fact.

Thursday, January 21, 2016

Ellen

I wanna watch but this turned into a ruined week.  I started to watch a 2nd episode earlier but left to go to the bathroom and went to bed.  Another day, I was up all night going to the bathroom each hour and threw up.  I am watching a movie at church tomorrow so may postpone and watch Ellen late Sunday.

From Before - The Ellen DeGeneres Show

Brielle Milla was adorable, the little girl who knows all the elements on the periodic table.  I started majoring in Chemistry Pre-Med for Psychiatric Research once.

Elton John was awesome, love him so much!  Love The Lion King, a true legend he is.

Being "Nice"

Do you know people who are ultra nice to you just to take what's yours?  Is it that hard?!

"Do you love me??"

Do people like me for "me" or the art/music I've made??

IMDb - The Soapbox

Do you have any real friends?

People who don't abandon you and ultimately think you're good d**d? 

IMDb - The Soapbox

Re: Should I go to Law school or medical school?

Law School Politics

or

Med School Psychiatry Research

I think you need to go to a school where you really concentrate on your craft. Like a BS or something as opposed to a BA, where you'd end up in Human Services or something. 

IMDb - The Soapbox

Re: Abortion Groups

They said all the hate of people talking at the height of their might wasting time just blabbing nonsense for attention about stupid things like abortion and who knows what else is what caused things like 911, Columbine, etc. to happen. 

Wednesday, January 20, 2016

IMDb - The Soapbox

Re: Just finished watching "Inside Out"

Yes, we're seeing it at church on Friday, too. I saw it twice in theaters, once with my mom. I give it a 10. Tho, it seemed pretty basic. It's only one movie, tho. I mean, there were good points but not much elaboration emotionally and artistically. I recall it being more factual and statistical. 

Tuesday, January 19, 2016

IMDb - The Soapbox

Abortion Groups

I think I just joined one making a trip to a place I used to live. I went to a meeting I found out from it with someone from where I lived somewhere else.

However, I feel I am rejected, even if I were sorry, for saying this group is ill to me thinking I will get together like twice a week to talk about Abortion.

I learned somehow that people say problems come from too much blab about abortion. They blame 911 on that. 

Monday, January 18, 2016

Fat and Happy..

..Some people just want their house and food waiting for them to eat, don't do much about self-image to reach their true desires/goals.  They don't get excited, they don't regulate their eating, resting, exercise, etc.  They won't go on a diet.  I'm not really just talking about all fat people but people displeased by self-image.  I'm partly one of them but am getting there.

So, if it's not just very fat people, it's very mad people.  I think fat people have nothing to lose but fat.  Of course, they will still look cute and plump after a little dieting, so even if you like looking plump what have you go to lose?  I know they aren't comfortable.  Eventually, most people could start to like how they turn out to look after losing more weight, even if now they seem not to care, maybe cuz they just like to eat!  They probably eat in place of real sleep/rest.  I have known that sleeping and resting a lot is lazy but later on that it helps keep your food digesting, so I dunno.. I know I get hungry and tired after exercise so that seems to fit.

New Photo of Me

Yesterday

Friday, January 15, 2016

The Ellen DeGeneres Show

John Krasinski was pretty cool.

Ken Jeong seemed very entertaining and nice!

Bob Harper was great, too!

It was neat to see what Ellen does to exercise.  It must be hours of torture!

Thursday, January 14, 2016

"Change of plan?"

Why would a kid deserve something for something they do better than their parents if people think your parents make you who you are and you aren't really different?

Late Boomers

People born around 1957-1962 are considered the sweet saviors.

I'm so P.O.'d.

by stupid women born in the *1950s and the guys.

It's all some regiment about results.  No chance to think!  Nothing there!  Like, pitching to a goal you can't plan.  People seem to mistake my age for being from the *1950s.  No, I'm the next generation.

*Sorry, not sure what floats your boat.  I think I've hurt people's feelings about the truth.

"It's not a dream."

It's not a dream to be cared for by a Baby Boomer.

"A Word to the Wise"

If someone expects me to repay them for kindness, I don't take the offer.  That's one Christian to another.

Since Recently

YouTube

"Getting to Know You"

I figured out one reason people like Ellen DeGeneres so much.  She is the savior from the South.

Wednesday, January 13, 2016

TV

There are 2 Swedish women, one brunette one probably dyed blonde now.  Noticing the brunette, she was pretty attractive and in the US would go over big for her race etc.

The Ellen DeGeneres Show

Allison Janey is a very nice and smart person.  She's just a little younger than Ellen.

Charlie Puth did a good job with singing.  Ellen found him a long time ago on YouTube and now he's a success.

I liked the pie in the face thing.

Tuesday, January 12, 2016

The Ellen DeGeneres Show

Kevin Hart and Kygo..

The black guy was really nice and funny and smart.

The singer was pretty good.  So was the keyboardist with some easy stuff to play.

The white guy brunette was pretty cute, down-to-earth.

The Canadian twins, probably French, were so cute.  We saw them interview at the Golden Globes.  I like them so much!  They are amazing.

Monday, January 11, 2016

Hillary Clinton

Why is it a close call?

Poll

Hillary Clinton

Looks like she's winning!

Poll

She should have 99% overall!

Hillary Clinton

It looks like she's the ideal choice!

Hillary Clinton

The Ellen DeGeneres Show

I liked the 1st couple that was on, so humble actually but seemingly to some maybe inhibited.  They had a strong Southern accent, and you can kinda guess the girl would have one.

Hillary Clinton seemed upset she was not winning.  I wonder if she can, like, go out of her way and try harder.  Well, I guess she's the candidate, when it all comes to what.  -I'd love to work towards her campaign.  I honestly don't know much about her, tho.  I need to look into the candidates as I can.  I think it's now a battle between supporters not liking other supporters, maybe the rebels.  As much as they say it's about what the candidates do, I noticed in a way it still seems the reason is to make a statement against other supporters of a candidate.  Good luck to Hillary Clinton!  I should look into her more.  I'm a bit worried or, like, "superstitious."  I got upset when I saw a rerun of her on Jimmy Fallon, not at it tho but something else in my life.  I was hitting my sofa/hitting with my pillow, etc.  I had asked about that and thought it should be okay.  I dunno, I think I stopped after she came on.  I haven't had as many of these problems lately so much and have stress relief toys I got but don't use much.

Matt Lauer was quite a character, believed in fear of some of what he believes in for the greater good, like easily set off by an unrelated series of events.

Sunday, January 10, 2016

Golden Globes

I watched the beginning with Ricky Gervais, Jonah Hill, Kate Winslet.  Pretty cool stuff.  I just felt a rush as usual to leave.  I liked the pre-show on the carpet.  I noticed we don't have many people from my generation and younger yet.  Maybe, they're all just online.

New Photo of Me

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Saturday, January 9, 2016

Pictures of Me

December 31, 2015

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"Attention-Getters"

Isn't it funny when it's not right for a young person to talk to an older person, but it's not wrong for a younger person not to get attention?

"Gone Viral"

They sure have lightened the reigns on keeping people in check since Johnny Depp.

Worked Out

I feel very sore and weighted down since gymnastics after the holidays.  I need more sleep.  Balderdash!

Sleep....

How do you "go to sleep?"

Wanting People to Be Bad

You know, I know people want me to be bad so they get more.

I'm "in the way."

You might think I'm the one who's in the way who wouldn't be there.

Reconciliation/Confession

I went today and told all my sins I knew since childhood.  He wants me to come back every week, to report new sins.  He said I was a good person.

"Easy Street"

I noticed all other people who are born around 1997-1998, white people, etc., have relaxing lives and they don't have to do much to get what they earned.

TV

Titanic!  I've seen it on TV like 5 times partly.  I usually watch it if I catch it until it finishes.

The Sound of Music

I just got back from seeing it live and got a baby goat for $25.

The cast was all talented.  Maria was full of talent.  The singing was enchanting.  The music was good.

(Highlight blank spots to reveal spoilers:)
The little girl was cute when she got her teddy bear near the end.. sorta medium brown hair, thin, picked up like every time she gets on by someone.

Friday, January 8, 2016

Tan Skin

My skin is probably more "orange" than Ellen DeGeneres's.  It looks white in the light, tho.

*evil grin forms*

It was an accident, tho.

Racism

I told my therapist no one would talk to me.

I'm probably considered as great as Johnny Depp save for my race.  In the end, I do the same thing except I get knocked down each time.  I didn't say I was like Johnny Depp.  Now, he's very different in certain ways.  I think Johnny Depp is great because he is a fan of Tim Burton.  I checked my watch and remembered him, too.

Not on the Same Page

Some people just can't take I'm not on the same page as they are.

Being a Child

I feel insulted for being a child, for having feelings I don't control.  BOO!

Welcome!

Welcome to my BlogSpot!

Thursday, January 7, 2016

Twitter

twitter.com/wildwuss

Tuesday, January 5, 2016

Poll

Does Bella Thorne get enough of the (right) attention?  No!

Jealousy and Pride

People from down South in cool places such as New Orleans are questioning their validity encompassingly.

People in Florida usually seem to..

..solve their problems by not addressing real people but making it a general statement of a feeling.

Vanishing Act

If you didn't want other people there, then they wouldn't be, but I saw that they already are..

Things That Matter, People Matter

You may think what's important is "that people matter" and therefore you do, but you don't alone..  You'll find quite logically that other people matter..  You are special tho even if you are not the only one.  Sound familiar?

I got this off of other people.  It seems to be a stereotype unfortunately in nice people of more dynamically mixed European ethnicity.

Look at it this way.  It could be feasible to say you took care of the needs of 1 person.  Someone else is gonna get something, too, and it's not just 1 other person.

I had an epiphany on this topic but forgot how to put it and recall it back.

Even if other people share your interest, it should not ruin yours.

I can't see every black person deserving to take from others..  I can't see every white person being seen as "whole" in spirit..

Friday, January 1, 2016

Attention-Getting

Did you notice people notice certain people younger than themselves and say they didn't get enough attention but blame it on someone else younger than them like they did something, when it's actually just their fault?