They want what I like to "be" my cousin, I bet, and me something else. That's out. My cousin liked copying me and we got along fine. We did fight when my life became an experiment. I wasn't the aggressor. I don't remember! My cousin-in-law was there, as well, and I guess it became an issue that he thought I was boring and I got taken advantage of a little for being there and Chinese, which makes sense for them. Maybe, being with me is like being alone.