Like, she's saying, "No, I don't need anything," and using this to say later that she does to get things she's not supposed to be, like acting like others have problems outwardly. It's like we have to ignore her for life to go on and she knows it. She keeps piping up, like..! Making you feel guilty like she deserves something and you don't.
No offense, just noticing things that happen, trying not to be bad about it.