Aw. Yea, one of mine wasn't Asian but was in Nepal. I had army men, too, one stationed in California. Actually, one was in England with other ethnicities and a tad American but traumatized me. He's 15-16 years older, too, tho, but is cute with light brown hair in a bowl cut parted to the side. I'm sorry for your bad experience, as well. These other boys don't seem to care about the things I do or are cold outta luck..