I think parents must not like their SO if they criticize their kids for who they are, yet they shelter them to themselves, which is not a good feeling.
Some parents don't mate to have kids. I feel as though people are suggesting to me I should not exist for various reasons: being biracial, my dad leaving his home with a note he's getting married. I have a cousin who was very wild, and now they think it's my fault she got in trouble as a kid for no concrete reason that exists .. and now I'm the one who's bad all the time no matter what I do cuz I don't do anything. People attacking me make me mad, like the kids on your sho'. I have this inner feeling of fighting back when I forget to ignore it, the way people waltz around the room. I do live at home, but I feel I'm too old to be taught to listen. I don't do anything, they just want a certain mindset with me. I see I've cracked cuza lazy disciplining, people who should not be getting into my life like that about things they don't understand. It's very boring to just tell someone they are only like their family.
Good advice, Dr. Phil. We need to make sure important goals are met. I should elaborate what I'm posting, and so should other. We need kids to be comfortable with their life. One thing as a goal that made me uncomfortable was I didn't wanna do "just" ballet. So, in the end, it was not a recreational priority to excel in. I still cared about school too much, tho. My college kicked me outta my major they said for being shy, so my goals were not met. My parents didn't advise me with anything. I wanted to go to a hi ranking college, but I already chose my scholarship at that one. So, my future was jeopardized. You know, it was singing they kicked me outta and Music Education. I didn't tell them I wanted to do research maybe. My goal is to be healthy and become famous for arts or acting with movies. However, I'm on pills like for schizophrenia I don't need which made me need more pills. They could jeopardize my health, in the long run. My mom wants me on them. Otherwise, I would move out, but they said I wasn't ready, too, when I applied for a job in Miami. They said I could stay here and learn to care for myself.