People think things aren't okay that are necessary. But if they bother someone, I stop.
I thought Ellen didn't care about some things. Some things are big, and some things are little and we can't seem to control, like our subconscious actions. We need to address them as that rather than saying we literally meant it. Maybe, we soaked in some disagreeable things growing up and everyone does it. We get older, and people are in a contest to see how much they were able to be accepted as a person racially spreading their undying goodness.