"'Arguing' will get you nowhere."
People want the facts laid out on the table. They want "the end" at "the beginning." They want it all to come pouring out! They want you to sit there like a Hollywood blonde!! May as well do everything but the last thing I said, as it doesn't matter and it matters. I'm good at setting important goals. The rest is the mystery of "the journey" everyone so claims to love. There's no room to do both. You figure some things out and other things reveal themselves to you in life.