Should I be considered on Ellen's side? She seems to be into making people feel bad for things they did that they didn't know were so bad or just like that with me to find something to get mad about. Why dig into someone's past as a kid, when what they did wasn't flat out wrong supposedly? You can tell if a person is good or bad. People expect too much of us, we're bound to mess up. They frame you to have these things happen.. not sure how to fix it when under this influence. If you were bad as a kid, tho, other kids will be mad. Don't expect it to be cool with them to be treated that way still, too.