Someone does what they're not supposed to do when they want you in trouble to punish you, tho it's something they aren't supposed to do. I mean, like they say they will be good and later they even find new things for them that are naughty, not just that they forgot to be in check. It's like, they told you so. Whats your business making people feel bad? I understand if you want to make them a better person. How bad can people be?? I am upfront or just kinda fill in the gaps. I just sorta hold a conversation if I end up talking. We comment on acknowledging a common experience. That sounds like the nature of the world you think you should live in.